He just needs to brush it off his shoulder.
I do think he is AT TIMES unfairly cast-typed, but then again, there are situations where he is in the wrong and he does play the victim card like you said. I think the frustrations of never being able to do anything right get to him, but, he has to understand he's only hurting himself.
Not just himself but hes hurting the team and thats wat he fails to realize. He makes everyone around him look bad. All his crying is rubbing off on everyone else and its a shame. When ppl think of Sacramento they think we are babies and who do we have to blame?